On My “Not-To-Do” List for 2009

In the “Your Words” section of the January ‘09 Real Simple issue, the question for the month was “What is on your not-to-do list for 2009?” I’ll share more about my New Year goals/resolutions in a later post, but I just love that question!

My answer: Not to “throw my pearls to pigs”. Practically for me that means to not give what is precious/valuable to me (i.e. my time/energy/money/etc.) to those who are unwilling (or unable) to appreciate it. In 2008, I realized that doing so (in various areas of my life - personal/ work/ etc.) really drained me and prevented me from being my best overall.

So…what is on your not-to-do list for 2009?

Posted by Kimberly on 06 Jan 2009 | Tagged as: My Life

Eight Updates

It has been eight weekdays since I last blogged. I’m happy to be back! So, here are eight things that have happened over at the Coleman household while I’ve been “on break”:

1. Sean scared me so much when he fell off the loveseat on to the floor. He and Michael were playing with all of the pillows from the sofa and loveseat piled up high. I had just told them to stop because (obviously) Sean doesn’t have the same balance as Michael. I turned away and then I heard a loud cry (Sean’s). I looked over to the loveseat. No Sean. He had fallen over. After making sure that he was alright (that boy’s angels work overtime!) and comforting him, I began to scold him and Michael for not listening to me. The “lesson” ended though when Michael (with his big, bright eyes) looked at me and earnestly said, “I didn’t see THAT coming.” We all had a good laugh and moved on…

2. My husband and I had the “adoption talk”. In a later post I’ll share with you how the economy is affecting our plans to adopt a little girl from Africa. (If anyone knows of any great adoption grant programs, please let me know - kcoleman@mominthecity.com)

3. I got upset with toy manufacturers on Christmas morning. No, it wasn’t the crazy amount of packaging. No, it wasn’t how difficult it is to put some toys together (as a mom friend of mine says: “I need an engineering degree to put together the kids’ toys”). It was the fact that the boxes which held the toys had all of these character images on them that were not included in the box. One toy, in particular, had 15 images on the box. Guess how many came with the set? ONE?! At first, instead of enjoying playing with the set, my son asked, “When can we get the rest of the figures?” At first, I was tempted to get upset with him for being an “ingrate” but I really do believe that the toy manufacturers can do a better job of setting kids up to be happy with what they get. I understand “upselling” and all, but they could include additional item choices with the instructions so the parents (not the kids!) could see them. I’ll get off my soapbox now…

4. I was able to do all of the things on my domestic “to-do before the New Year”. I’ve been in New York City practically half of my life, but I’m still a Southern gal at heart. Cleaning the entire house and having black-eyed peas are two traditions that I still carry with me. So on the cleaning side, we cleaned the entire apartment; went through all of the clothes that Michael has outgrown (a lot!); dropped off bags of clothes (from Michael and my husband) to charity; and (my favorite accomplishment) went through all of our paperwork and put everything in “its place”. (Whew! I need a vacation from my vacation!)

5. I was relieved when a “down to the wire” deal was met to keep several important channels on Time Warner (my cable provider) TV. I didn’t care so much about the possibility of losing MTV. My concern was losing Noggin! Even though that channel is not as popular around here as it once was (my kids tend to like PBS KIDS and Disney channel shows more), they still like “Little Bill” and “Blue’s Clues”.

6. On New Year’s Day, I cooked and had dinner with one of my best girlfriends in the world and her new boyfriend (great, HUGE deal!).

7. In my downtime, I had a chance to explore some social media sites. It was interesting. I will share my thoughts about that in a later post.

And

8. I won THREE contests (yay!).
-I won a $30 gift card to The Children’s Place from Amy at Selfish Mom. (That’s great since we spent a couple of hundred dollars there in the last couple of weeks on clothes for Michael - he outgrew many of his clothes!)

-I won a Sarah Pinto Planner from Kim at Busy Bee Lifestyle. (I love all things paper - so this is a great prize for me!)

And

-I won a $150 grocery gift card from New York City MomsLikeMe.com. (Although it’s relatively new, this site is a great place for NYC moms to connect. They also have great giveaways.) Anyway, I’m SO excited about this win. Since groceries are already in our budget, I’m going to take the $150 and get myself a new camera (that was the only thing on my Christmas list that I didn’t get it.) What’s even better is that I was looking at one of my neighbor’s Lucky magazine. This month, they have a special 25% off code for the KODAK EASYSHARE M1093 IS Digital Camera. It has 10MP (which is SO much better than my current 4MP camera). In addition, I found a “free shipping” code for Kodak, so my total came up to $149.95 (yes!).

Posted by Kimberly on 06 Jan 2009 | Tagged as: My Life

Update on ‘08 Goals

On December 31st of 2007, I wrote a post called “I Resolve to Make My Own Goals in 2008″. In it, I laid out two of my major goals for 2008. They were the following:

1. “So, that’s one of my inner motivated goals for 2008 - to be at my pre-baby “fighting weight” before I turn 35 on May 21st.” I did reach my pre-baby weight and stayed at (or below!) it for the most part all year. Mainly, that was due to exercise though. (I love the Wii active games, Tae-bo, etc.) This year, I want to focus on the nutrition/food aspect of health. Now, it’s about being my best physically - not reaching a number on the scale.

And

2. “I will learn to drive.” Well, I did start learning to drive. I still have more to learn (how to make a three-point turn, highway driving, etc.). My 2009 goal is to get comfortable driving and to get my driver’s license by May 21st (my birthday and the day that my learner’s permit expires!).

So…how did you do with your goals/resolutions/whatever you call it for 2008?

Posted by Kimberly on 06 Jan 2009 | Tagged as: My Life

National Blood Donor Month iPod Shuffle Giveaway

(This year, I want to spotlight various charities and causes – at least one a month.)

JANUARY 2009 IS NATIONAL BLOOD DONOR MONTH. You can learn more on the AABB site.

“Blood is traditionally in short supply during the winter months due to the holidays, travel schedules, inclement weather and illness. January, in particular, is a difficult month for blood centers to collect blood donations. A reduction in turnout can put our nation’s blood inventory at a critical low.”

I will be donating blood this month. If you quality (age 17+, weigh at least 110 pounds, etc.) please consider donating also. As a little incentive, I’m going to give one Mom in the City reader who donates blood an iPod shuffle.

To enter, leave your name in the “Comments” section below or by sending an email to contests@mominthecity.com with “Charity” in the Subject line by January 31st. (Please only enter if you donate blood this month. It’s on your honor – I trust you!)

Posted by Kimberly on 05 Jan 2009 | Tagged as: Charity, Contests & Giveaways

Personal Trainer: Cooking & QUICK YOGA TRAINING DS Giveaway

This month at Mom in the City, we will be focusing on Personal Growth/Health & Wellness. The following healthy, gourmet meals and de-stressing workout giveaway will be a great help for 2009 diet and exercise “resolutions/goals”.

The first item is Personal Trainer: Cooking for the DS. This is a great interactive coach that helps beginner and experienced cooks. There are over 245 recipes from around the globe included that you will be taught to cook by the DS Chef. In addition to giving cooking instructions, you can also use the DS to create a shopping list, do calorie counts of recipes and much more. What is especially neat is that you can use voice commands to go to various steps so that you don’t get your DS messy while cooking. This is a great way to help you plan and create fun, new meals for your family for the New Year! (I’ll also include a Personal Trainer: Cooking reusable shopping bag to take with you to make groceries for your new gourmet creations.)

Below, you can see a clip of Lisa Kudrow using the trainer:

The winner will also receive QUICK YOGA TRAINING. Once again, this yoga trainer is good for everyone, from beginners to experienced yoga fans. Your virtual trainer will take you through over 180 poses that you get to choose from. This trainer also has navigation and voice recognition so that you can practice your yoga hands-free (of the DS). Other great features are that the system evaluates your physical age, adapts lessons to your level AND measures your breathing pace.

To enter to win both DS games and the reusable shopping bag, please leave your name in the “Comments” section below along with a reason that you’d like to change your diet and/or exercise habits in 2009 (or send an email to contests@mominthecity.com with “Healthy” in the Subject line and the answer) by January 31st.

(To see other contests & giveaways around the web, visit Contesting Monday or Contest Monday.)

Posted by Kimberly on 05 Jan 2009 | Tagged as: Contesting Monday, Contests & Giveaways

December Giveaway Winners

Wow…we had A LOT of giveaways in November and December! Congratulations to the following Mom in the City newsletter subscribers who won the following contests:

-GOLDILOCKS & THE 3 BEARS: Tiffany Losco
-The Children’s Place $30 gift card: Tiki11
-Coco Bonbons: Jenn & Lisa Starr
-$50 Stop & Shop/Giant/Peapod gift card: Maggie
-Bugaboo blanket: Alejandra Cerda
-Macy’s Gift Card: Brooke
-Monopoly Games (3): judy brittle, lorene, & Ellen Ring

And…

-Peek: Stef & Vanessa Chamberlain
-Tide Stocking Stuffers: Amy Red & Christin Banda
-Mabel’s Labels: Jessica Tupper
-Wintuk: Michelle Lederman
-Clorox® Disinfecting Wipes (3): Michele Daley, Junnie Mark-Kobashi & Alejandra Cerda
-Radio City Christmas Spectacular: Sandra Polanco

Posted by Kimberly on 05 Jan 2009 | Tagged as: Contests & Giveaways

Happy Holidays!

I will be taking a little break to spend some time with my husband and two sons. I’ll be back to writing on Monday, January 5th. Meanwhile…

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

HAPPY KWANZAA!

AND

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Posted by Kimberly on 23 Dec 2008 | Tagged as: My Life

MOM IN THE CITY’S 2009 “POLICIES”

In an earlier post, I mentioned that I would have my review & giveaway policies in writing before the end of the year. In early 2009, I’m going to be getting the site “tweaked” and there will be a separate “Policies” page. Meanwhile, this is what will be on that page…

For Mom in the City Readers

Giveaways:
Giveaways are open to US residents (unless otherwise noted on the post). Winners will be randomly selected by a random.org program. (I’m too sentimental to choose based on comments!) Winners are responsible for providing the requested shipping information within 3 days of notification. Otherwise, the prize will be forfeited.

For Potential Mom in the City Sponsors

Reviews:
Mom in the City has over 15 diverse reviewers with children ages newborn and up. We are interested in reviewing products geared towards moms and/or kids (ages newborn to five years old). Please note that we do not return samples. If you are interested in submitting an event or product for review, please email Kimberly (kcoleman@mominthecity.com).

Discounts:
Mom in the City is happy to offer relevant special discounts as a service to our readers. We are interested in discounts geared towards moms and/or kids (ages newborn to five years old). Please note that discounts must be 15% or more. If you are interested in offering a discount, please email Kimberly (kcoleman@mominthecity.com).

Giveaways:
Mom in the City readers love giveaways. (No matter how much/how little moms have financially, we all have one thing in common – we love to win!) As such, Mom in the City is interested in offering giveaways geared towards moms and/or kids (ages newborn to five years old). Please note that the total combined value of the giveaway must be $50 or more. Sponsors are also responsible for shipping the item(s) to the winner(s). If you are interested in sponsoring a giveaway, please email Kimberly (kcoleman@mominthecity.com). In your email, please indicate whether the giveaway will be open to: US only, US and Canada, or to International participants. Thanks.

(So…do you think that these “policies” make it clear that this site is primarily geared towards moms with kids ages newborn to five years old?)

Posted by Kimberly on 23 Dec 2008 | Tagged as: Uncategorized

HAPPY CHANUKAH!

ART (MENORAH)


MUSIC (CHANUKAH DREIDEL SONG - audio only)

Posted by Kimberly on 22 Dec 2008 | Tagged as: My Life

Hello Kitty: Big City Dreams Giveaway

We’re giving away a (rated E for Everyone) Hello Kitty: Big City Dreams Nintendo DS game.

Hello Kitty Big City Dreams is an exciting, cute and friendly mini game based adventure for the Nintendo DS ™ featuring the popular Hello Kitty character. The story finds our heroine, Kitty White leaving her home in Sanrio Town to try to make her mark in The Big City. Hello Kitty moves into a simple apartment downtown adjacent to The Big City. Although she lives on the bottom floor now, she dreams of the day she can move up to the luxurious penthouse. Help Hello Kitty explore her new environment, meet old friends and new and perhaps by helping others and working hard, Hello Kitty will finally say Hello to her dream suite in the sky!”

To enter, leave your name in the “Comments” section below along with the name of one of the game’s characters or by sending an email to contests@mominthecity.com with “Kitty” and the answer in the Subject line by January 15th.

(To see other contests & giveaways around the web, visit Contesting Monday or Contest Monday.)

Posted by Kimberly on 22 Dec 2008 | Tagged as: Contesting Monday, Contests & Giveaways

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