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I’m so excited to share our first Holiday Toy Guide. I compiled it based on the following: things that my kids like; things that I see other kids like (at playdates, group events, etc.); new toys that I’ve had sent to me from a variety of toy companies (it’s been like Christmas/Hanukkah/Kwanzaa around my house…it has been interesting explaining to my oldest son that he can’t keep everything); other mommy recommendations and research (by now, you all know that I’m an information junkie – if different editorial teams from 3+ parenting magazines considered a toy “tops”, I looked into it).
You will find 7 Favorite Gifts for three groups: Infants (birth to 18 months); Toddlers (18 months to 3 years) and Pre-Schoolers (3 years to 5 years). In addition, the number one gift item that I suggest across the board is one of my favorite things - BOOKS! You can go with the classics, The New York Times Bestsellers or purchase books based on the kid's areas of interest -- there's a book for every kid!
Be sure to leave comments on our blog regarding your favorite items…you just may win it!
I was at a birthday party recently where I met a woman with a child a little younger than my 3 year old son. As is normally the case, the topic turned to preschool. I was impressed by her candor. She said, "My husband and I went back and forth regarding whether or not we were going to play the preschool game. We finally decided to play it. Well, at least we know that we're playing the game." I on the other hand mentioned that I had decided the opposite...I refuse to play the game. (For those who are wondering what in the world I'm talking about, "the game" is paying insane amounts of money for pre-school so that your kid can possibly get in a good school in the future.) I don't know, I just can't wrap my mind around paying more for pre-school at Columbia (which a friend of a friend is doing) than I paid for college tuition there (granted that was 15 years ago tuition). Maybe it's because I'm from the South and grew up with a totally different educational system. (I'm not even going to start on how much I dislike the amount of standardized tests that NYC students have to take. God forbid if your kid is a great student/ learner but not a great test taker...). In any event, I love the city, but the educational system definitely still leaves much to be desired.
(On a side note, the November issue of TimeOut New York Kids has an interesting, informative cover story on getting into NYC's nursery and kindergarten schools.)
-Laurie Berkner at Carnegie Hall: Kid favorite Laurie Berkner (a NOGGIN staple) will be making her Carnegie Hall debut with this concert along with Susie Lampert (vocals and keyboard) and Adam Bernstein (vocals and bass). My son Michael loves Laurie Berkner and is so excited that we're going to this concert (which, of course, makes me happy). The concerts are on 11/4/2007 at 1pm and 4:30pm. Ticket prices range from $25 to $35.
-Target Free First Friday Nights at CMOM: They offer FREE ADMISSION from 5-8pm on the first Friday of every month.
-Buckle My Shoe Nursery School in Tribecca is hosting a FREE parenting seminar on November 14th at PS 234 from 6 to 7:30 pm entitled Playing Your Way To Harvard, a how to course for making the most of playtime with your children. The seminar will be led by Dr. George Forman, an expert in the field of Reggio which draws on the teachings of Piaget. All attendees must RSVP by November 12th. For FREE tickets, please email Lensko@bucklemyshoe.org.
It’s 30 years since we set out to rescue the circus from the jaws of the sports arena. In the process we created one of the most eagerly anticipated holiday treats in New York: The Big Apple Circus at Lincoln Center!
Now the tent goes up for our all-new 30th Anniversary show: “Celebrate!” Performers from all over the world are coming to make it a sensation. So juggle your schedule and bring the whole family. The Big Apple Circus is your circus. Big Apple is back in town!Big Apple Circus will be performing at Lincoln Center, October 19 – January 13
For tickets call CenterCharge: 212.721.6500 or Ticketmaster: 212.307.4100, or get yours online at www.ticketmaster.comFor more information about the Big Apple Circus and a full list of show-times visit www.bigapplecircus.org."
Mom in the City members can enter simply by sending an email to contests@mominthecity.com with "Circus" in the Subject line. The winner will be chosen on October 15th.

Following are some books that I read last month that were good or great...
For Myself:
-Heather Reider and Mary Goulet's It's All About You: Live the Life You Crave: This book (by two moms) gives practical advice to moms regarding how to be successful in every area of their life. It's a good book overall. However, in my opinion, it covers too many topics (money, sex, appearance, career, family, etc.). I guess that it's good for those who like to dabble. I prefer to go in-depth on one primary topic per book.
-Robin Roberts' From the Heart: Seven Rules to Live By: I really liked this small book full of practical advice. (I was pleased to see one of my favorite quotes as her #2 "rule".) The seven rules are: 1. Position Yourself to Take the Shot; 2. Dream Big, but Focus Small; 3. If at First You Don't Succeed, Dive Back In; 4. Never Play the Race, Gender, or Any Other Card; 5. Venture Outside Your Comfort Zone; 6. Focus on the Solution, Not the Problem; and 7.Keep Faith, Family, and Friends Close to Your Heart.
-Lisa Kothari's Dear Peppers and Pollywogs...: What Parents Want to Know About Planning Their Kids' Parties: This book is written by the founder of a great children's party website, Peppers and Pollywogs. It provides practical advice and tips regarding planning parties for kids. Some of the tips helped me with certain questions that I have had regarding parties as my children grow older (i.e. how to deal with siblings of invited guests, etc.). I highly recommend this book as a practical guide.
For My Sons:
-The Police Cloud
-Ginger Bear
-The Giving Tree (a classic!)
-Baby Bear, Baby Bear What Do You See?
-The Alphabet from A to Y with Bonus Letter Z
-Big and Little
and
Punk Farm On Tour
1. Stacks & Stacks: When we were at the Long Island cottage in September, my husband commented on two things that were in the cottage that he "wished" we had at home...a mail and key holder by the front door and a hanging towel holder in the bathroom. Instead of the hanging towel holder (his point was that people were coming out of the bathroom with dripping hands even when I put out hand towels), I just got a simple, cute paper towel holder for the bathroom. That should take away any confusion. I found both at this great site.
2. Huggies Extra Sensitive Wash: My oldest son has very sensitive skin, so we've always had to buy special products for his skin (read: more costly). I was pleasantly surprised to discover this reasonably priced (around $5), fragrance-free body wash that does not irritate his skin. (It's also safe for babies and kids with eczema.)
3. Single-item parting gifts at birthday parties: I love, love, love this idea because (being the clutter-phobe that I am) I'm not a big fan of a lot of little tchotchkes that are normally found in birthday party goody-bags. I went to two birthday parties this month where the moms gave single item gifts. One, had an assortment of books that she let the kids choose from on the way out. It was really cute, because it had a picture of the birthday boy as part of the bookplate. (An easy way to make bookplate stickers at home is to use a photo of your child with a few typed words and print it out on labels.) The other had an assortment of puzzles that she let the kids choose from. Since my son loves both books and puzzles, he was happy too. This is one idea that I'll be borrowing in the future. (Except for my son's next b-day party...he has his heart set on Chuck-E-Cheese, so attendees will be getting their goody bags of toys and candy aka tchotchkes - I apologize in advance.)
4. More variety in term life insurance policies: I'm not a financial planner. I just "play" one as a mom. Seriously though, every mom should be knowledgeable about the basics of finances. I really like that there are new options in term life insurance (the best type of insurance in my - and Suze Orman's - opinion). Met Life has a new "Term Life & Disability Package" which combines the two types of insurance that families need the most. Prudential Financial, Inc. also recently introduced a new term life insurance policy that includes a money back guarantee, PruLife Return of Premium (ROP) Term, which guarantees the return of all premiums paid if the insured person lives past the end of the term.
5. "My First Daily Planner" Wall Hanging by Leaps and Bounds Kids: I have been looking for a kid's wall calendar to give my son a visual of the days of the week, the months, etc. I found this and so much more in this wall hanging. It also has space for the day's weather, the season, the activities of the day and there's even a space for how the kid is feeling.
6. It was love at first sight when I saw Staub’s blue, round teapot, but at $120 (coupled with the fact that I already have a perfectly good teapot) it's going to have to wait until a special occassion ... perhaps Christmas. If my husband is looking, he can find it at Sur la Table.

7. I want a BlackBerry, specifically I want the BlackBerry 8830. It includes email, text and instant messaging, a personal organizer, a web browser, GPS and it's cute. I won't get one though because I truly think that it would hurt my relationship with my husband and kids. (I can easily get obsessed with email. At least with the computer, I have to turn it off at times. As such, a BlackBerry would not be a good thing for an obsessive person like me.) It's still one of my favorite things though. 
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