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Saturday’s event at The Little Gym of the Upper West Side was so much fun! Personally, I had fun catching up with moms from the past and meeting new moms. I really didn’t get to experience the inside of the gym, but my husband and sons did. I must say that (because of the nature of my job) my oldest son Michael is hard to impress. So, it was a pleasant surprise to hear him rave about the gym's air raft. My husband was impressed by it too since we haven’t seen it at any other gyms in the city. (My husband’s description: “kids sit on it; then, the staff blows it up and it rises up in the air; then, the kids get to run or crawl across it; at the end, the kids sit down on the raft; it deflates and comes back to the ground”.) were the highlights for my sonThe air raft, pizza and Valentine’s day cupcakes by TJ Bakery & Cafe were the highlights for my son.
I also received great input from the other moms in attendance. The overall consensus was: that their kids had a blast and want to go back; the gym is a great space; the staff was very friendly and attentive; the big air raft/mattress was a hit; and that the Babylegs and Crayola items were the biggest hits from the goody bags.
For those of you with little girls in your lives, Princess Baby is an especially cute new book. Giving this book along with a princess wand and/or tiara from a store like Oriental Trading Company would make a great little birthday gift.
I'm not big on doing gift guides for every holiday. I do like passing on good finds though. I'm not a huge lingerie fan, but I (re)discovered recently that my husband likes it a lot. (Men are really visual!) So, I'm making more of an effort to stock up on some key pieces. I like Victoria's Secret, but at a certain point, their products just tend to be "cookie cutter".
All that to say I was so happy to find Yumdrop.com, a site that offers both sexy and sweet lingerie. I received their Ruffle Bust Chemise and it was a hit (with both me and my husband). It was comfortable, flattering and my favorite color (pink).
On a funny, mom side-note, the chemise comes with a thong. Michael (my older son) came into our room the morning after I "modeled" it for my husband. He looked at my panties (before I could put a robe on) and asked, "Where's the rest of your clothes?" My husband and I started cracking up!
In any event, I highly recommend this site for finding romantic Valentine’s Day gifts for yourself/your significant other.
The Wheels on the Bus: Mango’s Big Dog Parade is excellent! My older son wanted to watch it over and over. This is the latest DVD in The Wheels on the Bus series where Mango, Papaya, Coco and their friends ride around on the Bus. (Roger Daltrey of The Who is the voice of Argon, the wise dragon bus driver in this series.) During this particular DVD, kids learn social skills like sharing, taking turns and getting along. One of the songs that are played is (of course) various versions of The Wheels on the Bus. Highlights include when the characters take a "Jungle Bug Adventure" where they learn about a variety of unusual insects and when they help a procrastinating dog get to the Big Dog Parade and Canine Festival. (For more information about the Big Dog Foundation and the Big Dog Parade and Canine Festival -an actual event- visit www.bigdogs.com.)


















Following are some books that I read last month that were good or great...
For Myself:
-Heather Reider and Mary Goulet's It's All About You: Live the Life You Crave: This book (by two moms) gives practical advice to moms regarding how to be successful in every area of their life. It's a good book overall. However, in my opinion, it covers too many topics (money, sex, appearance, career, family, etc.). I guess that it's good for those who like to dabble. I prefer to go in-depth on one primary topic per book.
-Robin Roberts' From the Heart: Seven Rules to Live By: I really liked this small book full of practical advice. (I was pleased to see one of my favorite quotes as her #2 "rule".) The seven rules are: 1. Position Yourself to Take the Shot; 2. Dream Big, but Focus Small; 3. If at First You Don't Succeed, Dive Back In; 4. Never Play the Race, Gender, or Any Other Card; 5. Venture Outside Your Comfort Zone; 6. Focus on the Solution, Not the Problem; and 7.Keep Faith, Family, and Friends Close to Your Heart.
-Lisa Kothari's Dear Peppers and Pollywogs...: What Parents Want to Know About Planning Their Kids' Parties: This book is written by the founder of a great children's party website, Peppers and Pollywogs. It provides practical advice and tips regarding planning parties for kids. Some of the tips helped me with certain questions that I have had regarding parties as my children grow older (i.e. how to deal with siblings of invited guests, etc.). I highly recommend this book as a practical guide.
For My Sons:
-The Police Cloud
-Ginger Bear
-The Giving Tree (a classic!)
-Baby Bear, Baby Bear What Do You See?
-The Alphabet from A to Y with Bonus Letter Z
-Big and Little
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Punk Farm On Tour
I love it when moms live their dreams. As such, I'm happy to announce the upcoming release of Karen Gurwitz' The Well Rounded Pregnancy Cookbook. Karen is a really nice mom who is great at preparing food. (I could hardly get my toddler son to stop eating the healthy, yummy food that she catered for an event that we attended!)
Karen, the founder of Mothers & Menus (http://www.mothersandmenus.com), includes over 100 recipes that are adapted to meet the many moods [Feeling Green (nausea) Feeling Blue (cravings) or Feeling Full (weight loss, or increased nutrients)] of expectant and new moms in this new book.
The book will be available at bookstores on Tuesday, August 7th. But you can pre-order your copy at Amazon.com. To do so, please follow the link here.
I love learning. I especially love learning from people who've actually done what I'm trying to accomplish. As such, I'm vey wary of taking marriage advice from people who aren't married. However, I'll make an exception for Mathew Boggs and Jason Miller, the bachelor authors of Project everlasting (http://www.projecteverlasting.com/). Even though they're bachelors, they had the sense to ask over 200 couples who were married 40+ years for their advice. Each of their book's eight chapters asks a question that is answered by the experienced couples. It's much more than a q & a though - you actually get to "know" some of the couples. I walked away inspired by (and in awe of) many of them. I feel challenged to have a marriage that will inspire others 40+ years from now!
Yesterday, I attended the launch event for "Little Scholastic". It is an early-learning (for newborn through 3 year olds) program. Books are the focus of the program, but it also has a dedicated web site (http://www.scholastic.com/littlescholastic/) which offers parenting tips, resources, message boards and more.
I read a few of the books to my three year old son. They are simple, bright and interactive. (They were a little too "young" for him, but I definitely recommend these books for kids up to age 3.)
These days, my definition of a good book is one that I must read before the week is up (my standards have changed drastically since child #2). Paula Deen’s memoir is a great book! Her book is written in the colorful style that she speaks in and (seems to) live by. She is refreshingly honest with her memories…from her struggles with agoraphobia after her parents dies to a foolish affair with a married man. Recipes are sprinkled throughout the book to emphasize a point in the respective chapter. This is also a great book for entrepreneurs because she candidly shares the various steps she took in her business from catering bag lunches from her kitchen to her restaurants/books/tv programs, etc. She gives great, practical advice on both running a business and “running a life” based on her mistakes and successes. The things that I like the most about the book are:
1. Her Southern charm – I love New York with all my heart, but I will always be a Southern gal
2. The fact that she started her business out of necessity later in life – In our youth-obsessed society, it’s sometimes easy to think that if you haven’t done something “great” by the time you’re 30 that it’s too late. It’s inspiring to learn that Paula didn’t even start the foundation of her future successful business until she was in her 40s.
3. She is a hard worker – At the end of the day, the one common denominator of all truly successful people is that they work hard at what they do….Paula Deen is no exception.
Now that we have two sons, my husband and I divide and conquer when it comes to bath time. I wash the baby in the kitchen sink (in a baby tub, of course) while my husband gives our toddler son baths in the bathroom tub. Our older son loves bath time, but he's been so attached to the new baby that he keeps wanting to run to the kitchen to see the little one's bath instead of taking his own. This all changed last week when I received some Crayola products to review. My toddler, Michael/reviewer once again, stays and plays happily in the bathroom tub.
Michael already loved the Crayola Bathtub Tints (now called Crayola Color Dotz) and hasn't taken a plain colored bath since he was introduced to them. Now, Crayola has some accessories for the Dotz.
The one that my son loved the most was "ozzie the octopus spout cover". It's this adorable little octopus that you place over the spout, you put one of the dots in his mouth and colored water comes out from his tentacles when you turn the spout on for bathtime. Unfortunately, our tub's spout isn't standard sized so ozzie doesn't fit (to my son's dismay). So, we now have an octopus on our (standard-sized) bathroom sink...not quite the same effect but it makes Michael happy.

The next item that he tested was the "color dotz tub boat". You put dotz into each of the boat wheels, pull the flag post, and put the boat in the bath water. The boat then travels through the tub, coloring the water. It works really well at coloring the water and is a fun boat to play with at the same time. Michael really liked it.
In addition to the two toys, Michael tested their "bath caddy". It includes bath crayons, bathtub paints and a jar of the dotz. Everything fits into a Crayola caddy that sticks to your bath wall with two suction cups. All of the bath coloring items were fun for Michael to use. Last, but definitely not least, Crayola included 30 packs of bath markers for attendees at our March playdate. Crayola is the BEST! Definitely look out for these products in your local toy stores.

4/20/07 Update:
Ozzie is being featured at Rite Aid from April through June and is now in line at Wal-Mart.
1. All Star Gourmet Popcorn Comets: Popcorn Comets (http://www.allstargourmet.com/) are 4 oz bags of air-popped organic popcorn in four flavors - Sweet & Salty (cinnamon, nutmeg, brown sugar, vanilla & sea salt); Spinach, Herb & Asiago; Hot & Spicy; and Sweet & Spicy. The popcorn is low fat - 5 g per serving (no saturated fat) and high fiber - 3 g per serving. Truthfully, I'm not a huge popcorn eater...(My teeth are close together and I have to floss like crazy after eating popcorn), but my favorite flavor was the Hot & Spicy. My son liked the Spinach, Herb & Asiago flavor well enough. Visiting friends, who are really into healthy, organic snacks and foods, really liked the Comets. Overall, this organic popcorn is a tasty, healthy snack for kids old enough to eat popcorn (and their parents!). It is sold at Whole Foods and www.amazon.com.
2. Flat Earth Fruit Crisps and Veggie Crisps: These are Frito Lay's newest brand. Each one ounce serving of the new “Impossibly Good” crisps contain a ½ serving of fruits or vegetables. Flat Earth fruit crisps and veggie crisps are available in six flavors: Farmland Cheddar; Garlic & Herb Field; Tangy Tomato Ranch; Wild Berry Patch; Apple Cinnamon Grove; and Peach Mango Paradise and retail for $2.99 (6 oz.). I sampled the Tangy Tomato Ranch and Apple Cinnamon Grove flavors. I really liked the Ranch flavor. I wasn't a big fan of the Apple Cinnamon chips, but my almost three year old son really liked them. You can get a $1.00 off coupon for the crisps at http://www.impossiblygood.com.
One of the last things that I wanted to do before giving birth was go to one more high/afternoon tea (one of my favorite things to do). That's exactly what I did last Saturday with a close friend of mine. We went to the St. Regis Hotel. It was a little pricier than other teas in the city ($45+ per person before tax & gratuity) but I figured that it would be a really good tea.
Unfortunately, I was wrong. The interior was nice, but since we were seated near the door we received a blast of cold air every time someone entered the area. The tea selection was pretty minimal....I ended up with chamomile tea. We received an assortment of bite-sized sandwiches which were fine, but nothing exceptional. The scones and cream were good though, so that made me happy. None of the assorted pastries looked especially appetizing, so I (and my friend) skipped that portion. Also, the presentation was confusing...it was a combination of English and Asian looking. (The finger sandwiches and scone sides were served on long, narrow rectangular dishes?!) The best part of the tea (besides catching up with my dear friend) was the attentive service. Our waiter was great...it wasn't his fault that the meal wasn't great.
In any event, I would not recommend the St. Regis for high tea. My friend and I rated our favorites (thus far). Her favorite is Alice's Tea Cup. My favorites are The Plaza (I hope that they still have high tea when they reopen in the Fall!); Alice's Tea Cup; Tea & Sympathy; and The Harlem Tea Room in that order. If you're a tea person, you can also find pretty accurate reviews of NY tea places at http://www.teamap.com/states/state_NY_Name.html.
If anyone else knows of any great tea spots in the city, please drop me a line at kcoleman@mominthecity.com. (I've also heard that Lady Mendl's has a great high tea...I'll try them next.)
As a mom, it can be challenging for me to go to the movies with my husband...that's my excuse for taking so long to see Dreamgirls. Anyway, we finally went yesterday and it was GREAT!
I had read several reviews beforehand. Practically everyone raved about Jennifer Hudson and Eddie Murphy; but the rest of the movie had received mixed reviews. So, I went in thinking that I would like the move. I was wrong...I loved it!
From the opening scene to the end, I was fully engrossed in the movie. Everyone did at least a decent job with their roles. Eddie Murphy did a great job. Jennifer Hudson did an amazing job...she's a natural. I had watched her on American Idol and she was a good singer then. However, she has definitely grown. It wasn't just her singing though...she's a natural actress. She took over every scene that she was in, not to mention every song. It's very rare that audiences clap in the middle of the movie, but we were clapping two or three times after Jennifer's singing. It wasn't just the women....the men were cheering just as loudly.
My husband and I left the movie singing (badly) and the songs stayed in our heads all day. In any event, I'm certain that there were some flaws in the movie, but the good outweighed the bad so much that I didn't notice the flaws. If you haven't seen this movie yet, line up your babysitter ASAP and run to the theater....highly recommended!
This week, I went to a "Green Baby Shower" at the Prenatal Yoga Center (students raved about the center... http://www.prenatalyogacenter.com). It was interesting to learn about "Green Gear" for moms and babies. Some of the items that caught my interest were the following:
-The book, The Complete Organic Pregnancy. What I like about the book (besides the fact that it was written by two moms of young children) is that it allows readers to pick and choose (without feeling guilty) which areas of their life that they can go more natural. As one of the authors said, "It's better to be 20% green, than 0%."
http://www.harpercollins.com/books/9780060887452/The_Complete_Organic_Pregnancy/index.aspx
-Green Nest: Their goal is to create healthy homes. I especially liked their colorful organic baby accessories. My toddler (who came with me) really liked their (beautifully illustrated) children's book My Body My House which teaches about the importance of a healthy home. ttp://www.greennest.com/
-HappyBaby was also there with their fresh frozen organic baby foods. They have been getting raves in the press. http://happybabyfood.com/
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-Last, but definitely not least, you can't have a shower without food. Catering was provided by Mothers and Menus. Karen Gurwitz, the Founder, was in attendance and it was obvious that she has a passion (and the talent) for catering. The food was nutritious, but also yummy. I especially liked the sandwiches. My son especially liked the strawberries, cookies and cake (of course!)http://www.mothersandmenus.com/
In any event, I left thinking of ways that I could incorporate "going green" into my lifestyle.
I picked up this book at the library and I was pleasantly surprised. (I've been doing a lot of reading lately...perhaps out of "fear" that I won't have as much/any time to read after I have Sean in February.) Overall, this book is about women facing their fears. By nature, I'm not a very fearful person so I didn't think that the book would be that helpful.
As I mentioned, I was pleasantly surprised. The book tackled fear on a variety of levels: about the body; about love; about parenting; about work; about money; about aging and illness; about God and death; about leadership and speaking out; and about changing the world. After Ms. Huffington shared her thoughts on each topic, there was an essay from another prominent woman on the topic.
Of the fears mentioned, I realized that I still need to be conscious of my fears regarding parenting (not so much that me and my husband will "mess up" our kids, but the fear of "outside" dangers and influences) and about aging and illness (moreso illness...it's disconcerting for me to think about the necessity of relying on others to meet my needs).
In any event, the book isn't really about becoming fearless...everyone has some sort of fear. Moreso, it's about facing our fears and not allowing them to rule our lives....a great lesson/reminder for women (and men!).
Last night, our family attended the Eleventh Annual Halloween Celebration at the American Museum of Natural History (www.amnh.org). It was a lot of fun. There were a lot of performances, activities and characters throughout the museum.
My son enjoyed Curious George, watching the other children in costume and "trick or treating" at the (over 20!) trick-or-treat stations throughout the museum. My husband enjoyed finding the various trick-or-treat stations and enjoying the various exhibits at the museum (he hadn't been there in a while). As for me, I enjoyed bumping into a few moms who I had met at different events this year and seeing my son so excited about "trick-or-treating" (he really didn't "get it" last year). For $9 a person, I think that this was one of the best Halloween deals in the city!
Last night, 10/24/06, I attended the AMNH (http://www.amnh.org/) Family Party. It was excellent.
On the second (ground) floor, families were welcomed into the museum with tunes by Jeffrey Friedberg and the Bossy Frog Band (http://www.bossyfrog.com/), a fun lively family music band, along with friendly stilt walkers. The Butterfly Conservatory, which houses a variety of beautiful living butterflies and foliage, and butterfly origami were also on this level.
The first and fourth floors of the museums were where the majority of the festivities took place. I headed to the fourth floor first. I stopped by the “Lizards and Snakes: ALIVE!” exhibition first. The little boys especially loved this exhibit which was full of creepy, crawly actual lizards and snakes (behind glass, of course). The dinosaurs, primitive and advanced mammals were also on this floor. There were many activities from which to choose. The more popular areas were the “Dino Doo’s by Cozy’s Cuts for Kids” where the kids were able to get cute, gelled-out hairstyles; the “Dino Tattoos” and the “Decorate Dino Cookies” stations.
On the first floor, I observed families with smiling children enjoying a variety of activities. Highlights included the inflatable moonwalk, the “Build a Book” station by the Scholastic Book Factory, and the “Meet & Greet Joe from Blue’s Clues” areas. In addition, the children especially enjoyed the music by Music for Aardvarks and other Mammals (http://www.musicforaardvarks.com/), clown performers and face painting. Lastly, the great array of food and gift backpacks added to the evening’s overall festive mood.
All in all, it seemed as if everyone had a great time for a great cause.
I took my son to the preview of the Big Apple Circus’ carnival-themed “Step Right Up” performance at Lincoln Center last night. It was so great! The adults in the audience were having as much (if not more!) fun than the kids. In fact, there were several couples that were there on a date without the kids. The jugglers, acrobats and bicyclists were my favorites. My son’s favorites were the performing dogs and horses. He also loved “Grandma” flying through the air. After the circus, he said “Thank you Mommy for the circus. Good job!” (That’s a pretty good endorsement from a 2 year old.) Highly recommended.
The event was to promote the launch of the W Spa Suites and W’s two new packages: Suite Bliss and Girls Night In. The fourth floor suites are very luxurious and I think that it would be fun to have a Girl's Night In there where a bunch of girlfriends hang for the evening, watch movies and are treated to “in-suite” spa services. I'm looking forward to the day that my child (and future child) will be old enough for me to hang out with my girlfriends for the weekend.
I also had the chance to speak with the marketing director, Elizabeth. She informed me that Bliss also had a great program for expecting moms, "Baby Me". You can learn more about that program at http://www.welcometowhotels.com/nycbaby/?IM=SOP_LearnMore_WH_NYBABY_1234_NYC. (Personally, I wouldn't mind a weekend there before the new baby's arrival...)
-Bugaboo strollers
-Mustela skincare, especially Dermo-Pediatrics
-Bumbleride Strollers
-Stokke Kinderzeat
-Bratt Decor Dick Crib
-Trumpette Mary Jane Socks (Babies & Toddler's now in stock!)
-Petunia Picklebottom Diaper Bags
-Oeuf Cribs and Changers
-Barefoot Dreams Blanket and Robes
-Beca Diaper Bags
Source: www.babyandmeboutique.com
4/25/06
Agent Provocateur has launched a range of maternity and post-natal lingerie. Famous for their beautiful bras and panties, Agent Provocateur has teamed up with maternity expert Dr Gowri Motha to create the line, which both looks great and is also functional. Find out more at http://www.agentprovocateur.com/maternity.php